How to Use Sex Toys for Intimate Play: A Beginner’s Guide to Insertable Toys for All

Elevate Your Intimate Play with Insertable Toys

Curious about how to use sex toys for intimate play? Insertable toys can bring a thrilling dimension to your pleasure, whether you’re exploring vaginal play, anal play, or both—solo or with a partner. At MommysToyShop.com, we’re here to guide adults aged 18–45 through the process with confidence, offering 1-hour delivery in Edmonton! This beginner’s guide will break down how to use insertable toys for all genders, share safety tips, and spotlight our top toys for women and men. Let’s dive into the world of intimate play!

Step 1: Choose the Right Insertable Toy for Your Body

The first step is picking a toy that suits your anatomy and comfort level. At MommysToyShop.com, we offer a range of beginner-friendly insertable toys for all genders:

• For Women (Vaginal Play):

  • We-Vibe Chorus ($239.99): A couples’ toy with an insertable arm for G-spot stimulation and an external piece for clitoral play, app-controlled for partnered fun.

  • Satisfyer Triple Lover ($106): A dual-stimulation toy with an insertable shaft for vaginal play and a clitoral stimulator, ideal for beginners.

  • Satisfyer Spinning G-Spot 1 ($99.56): A G-spot vibrator with a curved tip for targeted vaginal stimulation, perfect for solo play.

• For Men (Anal Play):

  • We-Vibe Vector + ($149.99): A prostate massager with a slim, insertable design for targeted P-spot stimulation, ideal for beginners.

  • Booty Call Booty Rocket ($45.99): A weighted anal plug for comfortable anal play, designed for gradual stretching and pleasure.

  • Weighted Silicone Inflatable Plug by Calexotics ($65.00): A luxury prostate massager with remote control and vibrations, perfect for solo or partnered anal play.

• For All Genders:

  • Satisfyer Endless Fun ($93.00): A toy with many many uses.

These toys are made of body-safe silicone, with beginner-friendly sizes for vaginal and anal play.

Step 2: Prepare Your Body and Space for Intimate Play

Preparation is key for comfortable insertion, whether for vaginal or anal play:

• Relax and Arouse: Start by getting in the mood. For vaginal play, touch yourself or use a clitoral toy (like the Satisfyer Double Joy’s external arm) to increase natural lubrication. For anal play, relax with a warm bath or external massage around the anus to ease tension. Couples can engage in foreplay to build arousal.

• Use Lube (Lots of It!): Apply a generous amount of water-based lube (our water-based lube is $9.99) to the toy and your vaginal or anal opening. For anal play, lube is non-negotiable—use extra to ensure comfort and safety.

• Set the Scene: Create a sensual space—dim the lights, play soft music, and ensure privacy. If you’re in Edmonton, order from MommysToyShop.com, and we’ll deliver in just 1 hour for spontaneous play!

  
  

Step 3: How to Use Insertable Toys for Vaginal Play

Here’s a step-by-step guide for vaginal insertion, perfect for women or anyone with a vagina:

1. Get Comfortable: Lie on your back with knees bent or sit propped up with pillows. Hold the toy by its base for control.

2. Start Externally: Rub the lubed toy against your vaginal opening to relax the muscles. You can also use the external part of the dildo for clitoral stimulation to build arousal.

3. Insert Slowly: Angle the toy slightly upward (toward your belly button) to align with your vaginal canal. Insert the tip gradually, pausing if you feel discomfort. Breathe deeply to relax your pelvic muscles.

4. Find the Right Depth: Insert the toy 2–4 inches for beginners, stopping at a comfortable depth. For G-spot stimulation, aim the curved tip toward the front vaginal wall, about 2 inches in.

5. Experiment with Movement: Try gentle thrusting, rocking, or circular motions. Turn on the vibrations (start low) to explore sensations. With the We-Vibe Chorus, let your partner control the app for a shared experience.

Step 4: How to Use Insertable Toys for Anal Play

Here’s a step-by-step guide for anal insertion, suitable for men (prostate play) or anyone interested in anal play:

1. Relax Completely: Lie on your side with knees bent or on your back with a pillow under your hips. Hold the toy by its flared base for safety.

2. Start Externally: Apply plenty of lube to your anus and the toy. Gently massage the anal opening with your fingers or the toy’s tip to relax the sphincter muscles—never rush this step.

3. Insert Gradually: Once relaxed, insert the lubed toy’s tip slowly, no more than 1–2 inches at first. Breathe deeply and exhale as you insert to help the muscles relax. Pause if you feel resistance.

4. Target the P-Spot (for Men): For prostate stimulation, angle slightly toward the belly, about 2–3 inches in, until you feel a walnut-sized bump. The vibrations can enhance the sensation—start on a low setting.

5. Explore Sensations: Use gentle rocking motions or turn on vibrations. For beginners, use a non-vibrating option to get accustomed to the feeling of fullness.

Step 5: Enhance the Experience with Partners

Insertable toys can deepen intimacy for couples of all genders:

• For Vaginal Play: Use the We-Vibe Chorus during penetrative sex—insert the G-spot arm while the external piece stimulates the clitoris, allowing both partners to feel the vibrations.

• For Anal Play: The Vector + can be used during partnered play—insert it for prostate stimulation while engaging in other intimate acts, letting your partner control the vibrations via remote.

• Set the Mood: Slip into some outfits from Elegant Moments to boost confidence, then take turns exploring each other’s toys for a shared experience.

Step 6: Safety and Comfort Tips for All Insertable Toys

Safety is essential for both vaginal and anal play:

• Flared Bases Are a Must: Ensure toys have flared bases to prevent them from slipping too far inside.

• Lube, Lube, Lube: Use water-based lube for both vaginal and anal play—anal requires even more to avoid discomfort.

• Clean Thoroughly: Wash toys before and after use with toy cleaner (ours is $14) to prevent infections, especially for anal-to-vaginal transitions.

• Go Slow: Stop if you feel pain or resistance. For anal play, never force insertion—relaxation is key.

• Store Properly: Keep toys in a cool, dry place—our discreet storage pouches are perfect.

Step 7: Experiment with Sensations for Both Genders

Once comfortable, try these ideas:

• Vaginal Play: Vary the angle of the Satisfyer Double Joy to explore the G-spot or A-spot (deeper, near the cervix). Adjust vibration patterns via the app for a customized experience.

• Anal Play: Use the Vector +'s remote to experiment with vibration patterns, or try weighted sensation during daily activities.

• Temperature Play: Warm your toy in warm water for a cozy feel, or cool it in the fridge for a thrilling contrast—always test the temperature first.

Why Choose MommysToyShop.com?

At MommysToyShop.com, we’re Edmonton’s first 1-hour adult toy delivery service, making it easy for adults aged 18–45 to explore intimate play. Our curated selection of insertable toys for all genders ensures quality and pleasure. We also ship Canada-wide with discreet packaging, so your privacy is always protected.

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Embrace Intimate Play for All

Using sex toys for intimate play, whether for vaginal or anal exploration, is about discovering what feels good for you or your partner.

Go slow, communicate, and have fun—your pleasure journey starts here!